Not an excuse for being a jerk, but... "Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad." ― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow It's been a little while since I posted a quote (or any content at all, really) and I came across these words earlier today. Sometimes when I encounter people who seem to be without any warmth or compassion or are otherwise unkind toward me, I wonder to myself, What the f*** is their problem?