Essentially, it all boils down to this:

Taken on a wall in Bologna, Italy.

Photo credit (posted with permission): author Chloe Caldwell, via Instagram

Her website: chloesimonne.com

Also, her book I'll Tell You in Person, is one of the first texts I read when I got on my whole memoir/personal essay collection kick that I've been on for years and it's still one of my favorites.